The term ‘I have serious intentions about you’ used for a relationship between a man and a woman usually refers to making plans like the establishment of a legal corporation. They think about it as if they are making a corporate charter. Would she look after him well, would he bring good money to home, would she do his ironing? These are things considered. In fact fear of God is what should be concentrated on. A person who doesn’t fear God cannot be trustworthy. God would not let you live comfortably if you get in a search to see ‘how much money he makes, if he has a car or not, if he owns a house or not and how his family circle is’, without searching for fear and love of God. Most men regard women as flesh and bones. They tend to take a dislike to them the moment they witness the slightest weakness. They leave them alone when they are ill. And most women regard men as the guarantee of their future. Real love, trust and friendship cannot be formed with such an understanding.
(Adnan Oktar; 12 April 2018)